Thursday, September 17, 2009

Please do not yell instructions during games and scrimmages

With the first scrimmages and games upcoming, parents are reminded of expected fan conduct.

In addition to being positive and supportive, it's critical that parents/fans not yell instructions to players during the game. This confuses players, particularly if what the parent is yelling is contrary to what the coaches have explained they want (e.g.: always booting the ball as far as you can rather than trying to keep possession).

Even more importantly, this prevents the players from learning the game themselves: it's like doing their homework for them.

Players need to be given the chance to make their own mistakes and learn from them. Coaches will counsel them when they return from the bench or after the mistake is made. But the learning can't happen if someone is constantly telling them what to do when they're on the field.

Constant yelling from either sideline creates players who are fearful and tentative and can not make quick decisions on their own, because they're not given the opportunity to do so. Well intentioned as it may be, it is one of the worst ways player development can be harmed.

Parental cooperation is in this regard is greatly appreciated.

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